Great life experience! Have you continued in your artistry?
Growing up I had many "girl friends" who were just friends, nothing more. There was no romantic involvement and it never lead to anything but companionship. It's sad that Watchtowerites cannnot experience close friends with the opposite sex because they think we humans cannot control our sexual desires when alone.
As for first acts of rebellion against Watchtower? Buffy the Vampire Slayer binges with the wife and coming here for confirmation that Watchtower was a lie.