renee...
While I agree in priciple to some of what you say, I find it distasteful (and I say this as a late 30's white male here in the US) that people actually use the argument that african americans should somehow be greatful that their forefathers survived the free boat ride, bondage, and centuries of abuse to get where they are. To me, that's no argument at all.
Yes, African Americans have many opportunities now, but that by no means exuses the way they ended up here. There was no choice involved. Same way with the Native Americans. They were given no choice, yet they are told to "deal with it".
Having said that...I do strongly buy in to the idea of asking...."so we're HERE now...where do we go next?" How do both minorities who have been unjustly treated in the past as well as this country as a whole, move forward? To me, it's exciting to think of the mix we have. As someone else stated, we all need to be Americans. That's what the whole idea of a melting pot is. We should be mixing together bringing out the best in one another...taking the best parts of all the cultures represented and making them our own. Not keeping seperate like the items on a grade schooler's lunch tray. As I said, I don't buy into that part of your argument, but the sentiment of equality (relative is the best we can really hope for) is a worthy aim.