Mini..you continue to make me upset,
What was the question?
were the abused not a witness and abused by a witness?
Were the abused witnesses, and the abuser not a witness ?
Were the abusers and victims both wittnesses when they were abused?
It effects everyone in the same way, and it is a big problem. Sick is sick.
Give more to you questions..Please.
You know I have become more tolerant..but you are not helping my progress.
Avishi, thank you for your post, my abused sisterinlaw is is giving my brother hell and torment, She let her son and daughter be abused, both by neightbor"s,
it was all ok,
because they were worldly, but she was abused by a witness cousin as a preteen. And she doesn't think there is anything wrong with him because he is still a witness.
And we wonder why shrinks get so many clients.
My brother has finally started reading this site...Thank you Simon.