Well...adaddon... (Satan?)
First, my intension is not to be rude to anyone, my apologies.
Ok, let me now explain basic probability. With a dice, you have a probability of 1/6 to hit 6. That means, it is more likely that you don't hit 6.
Ok, now, if the chance of something is very small, that means it is not very likely that it will happen.
Back to the dice, if you throw the dice 10 times in a row, the probability that 6 doesn't show up at least ones is only about 1/6 (in fact 16.15%). Did you see what happened? If you throw the dice 10 times, or throw 10 dices at once, it is likely to get at least one 6.
What does that mean to the universe? It means, if this isn't the first or if this is just one of many universes, there isn't such a mystery why the probability seems to be so small. Sooner or later it is going to happen.
But you cling to the theory of a very very unlikely scenario. Why?
You also wanted to know why our universe has to be unique. Well, if it isn't unique, we still want to know why our universe isn't unique. Why is G the value we know? Why isn't the gravitational constant higher or lower? A theory of everything would explain that. It would show why G doesn't have a different value.
We already know that human life isn't unique. We could have evolved in a different direction, or another sperm could have won the race, and we have a theory of evolution that to some extent explains how the evolution of human beings was possible, and how it might have happened. And it DOES NOT depend on pure chance to explain it!
Today we have a quantum field theory that explains how the universe behaves, but doesn't answer the question why. A theory of everything would explain why.
I'll explain the sperm to you once more. Your explanation depends on the statement that only one sperm is the winner. To me, any sperm can be the winner, and it doesn't matter if A or B or C wins, the result would be the same. But, I believe that there is a one and only possible universe (for life), only one winner, but here you turn around and tells me that any universe can be the winner, and we are here due to pure chance, that life could have evolved from any universe.
If the universe is unique, the theory of everything is what we have to hope for, if not, then the anthropic principle is the most logical explanation. Do you understand? I see that you are satisfied with the explanation that we are here due to pure chance, I am not, that is not an explanation. I believe there is an explanation for all this. And the anthropic principle migh be just that explanation, and it is very compelling. Then we don't have to wonder why we are here, the answer would be that there is no other alternative. And for me, a diety is something that explaines why there is a universe in the first place. It does not explain why the universe is as we know it.
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