Is nice to hear( under the circumstances) that your grandfathers funeral was all about him and not the heavy watchtower lectures.
im sorry for your loss. Jws funerals are usually so clinical that most just “cruise” through it.
i know of a sister that died, but had planned her whole service, to detail of the songs she wanted, the orator etc.
i was told such a lovely service, so personal and so different.
i just thought... most normal funerals are like that...jws don’t know the difference because they are used to only it one way only, and they don’t attend others funerals either.
Where I live on the uk, it’s normal to have a wake after burial. But in my country of birth no. (Unless that has changed recently).
When I explained once what was it like to my jws family, some were shocked, how terrible to go eat and drink after burying your loved one. But that’s not what’s like, it’s a chance to commemorate the life of the person that has passed, it’s a loving way to show support to the family too.
conclusion: witnesses need to learn more from the worldly people and better their way of performing funerals.