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  For the struggling faders and control freaks

  by dubstepped in

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  i see people struggling with maintaining control over their reactions to their witness relatives and something struck me that i'd like to share.

  as a jw you're taught that you should have unlimited self-control.

  article after article, talk after talk, about controlling your impure thoughts, feelings, music, movies, speech, actions, literally everything a human could struggle with.

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  Theonlyoneleft

  Thank you for this post! It’s such an easy point of view, sometimes I forget how easy things actually are in real terms. Pls ignore the unlike presses 😊... that was me 😉 as a mistake... I couldn’t stop pressing the like button and my thumb was just to eager that ended up on the other side. It’s a great post that will help me. 🙂
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  William sisters....what’s that all about?

  by Theonlyoneleft in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  ok... so the william sisters have in the past spoken openly about their faith by saying they are jehovah witnesses.

  but do they attend regular meetings?

  door to door ministry?

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  Ok... so the William sisters have in the past spoken openly about their faith by saying they are Jehovah witnesses.

  But do they attend regular meetings? Door to door ministry? Offer their services in the local KH?

  Why are allowed to let run riot with their competitive games... mini mini skirts?? 👀👀.....and goodness whatever more?

  Isn’t the Society showing their colours by letting celebrities run riot when more modest witnesses get reported, shunned and disassociated because of minor infringements?!

  How is this fair? Does it come down to money? Position? Or that the bad publicity the WT might get?

  I can’t understand it. And I can’t understand why practising JWs don’t look at this and think... hold on a minute, why the double standards?

  Peeps.... what are your views?
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  More fear-mongering in Nov. 2019 WT

  by neat blue dog in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  first of all, there's a new imaginary picture of jws during the great tribulation:.

  then there's a picture of a jw family refusing to listen to "apostate lies" via pre-programed, self imposed information control:.

  the description says:.

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  I find this so strange.

  Firstly... for the WT to be publishing these type of articles for jws to read means that these guys are very much in tune what’s going on online and what “these so mean bad apostates” are saying about the organisation. so “NO NO NO.....you must not go online!!... but WE WILL!... in your behalf brothers..... because our research will help you to be near Jeeee-hovah!! “ 👀.

  THEN they also tell you... stay away from the worldly images that can rot your mind and pollute your thoughts BUT you can come to the meetings and read our publications where we explicitly explain death, suffering and the ostracism of others! YAY!!! All in a good days work!

  Such hypocrites!
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  C.T. Russell / Free and Accepted Order of Masons of the Lord Jesus Christ's Commandery

  by mizpah2 in

  1. watchtower
  2. scandals

  le lundi 16 juin 1913, le pasteur charles t. russell prononça un discours privé - réservé aux "intéressés" - au golden gate commandery hall de san francisco (1) (2).dans un premier temps, lors de cette conférence intitulée "le temple de dieu", le 2ème président de la société watch tower s’identifia directement à 6 reprises comme "maçons", "franc [mot en italique] maçon", "maçon libre et accepté", membre du "grand ordre de maçonnerie libre et acceptée", adepte d'une "maçonnerie moderne" et membre de "l'ordre de la maçonnerie libre et accepté".

  ", 14 juin 1913, p.12 / "the san francisco call.

  ", 15 juin 1913 / "the san francisco call.

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  Theonlyoneleft

  Mispah anglais s’il vous plait, je ne comprend pas francais 😊

  merci.
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  How a young Jehovah's Witness found an escape and a Teacher suddenly appeared.

  by Terry in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  how a young jehovah's witness found an escape and a teacher suddenly appeared._____________.

  1974____i escaped texas in my mid-20’s -- a fugitive of my own life--fleeing westward into california with a dream of- i know not what.i knew nothing useful - it was only bible knowledge.what i did know, i was full of in the same way foie gras is made.

  (in france, ducks are force-fed until their liver bursts.

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  Great stories. Have you ever thought of writing a book? If not... you should. 🙂
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  video games sports etc

  by Akid48 in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  maybe two or three weeks ago we had a meeting at the hall about sports which was pretty bad.why do they act like they support sports or videos while they say at the same time they say you can't do 90% of anything of those things,maybe the video says you can play sports here and there but then you have the social problem of brothers and sisters looking down on you for liking sports more or liking to watch sports more than take hours out of your day sitting down going over the watchtower or reading a bible.

  is it just me more i think as a teen you should at least being doing something even if its not sports maybe music or anything a teen likes,because every time i try and talk to a teen in the kingdom hall they seem off or flat out weird,its like there a different type of teen or something they cant relate to anything that you would usually talk about i don't know there just off and i feel like locking them up and locking there brains is just horrible..

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  Akid48 i forgot to mention something......Maybe the teens on your congregation are doing fun things unknowingly to you, that would be watched down by brothers and sisters as you put it and maybe they are just trying to keep things low key so they aren’t find out. So don’t take it to heart and build good friendships somewhere else that will be worth to have. Also**** education education education!!!! If you can value this because no matter what happens in your live this always can be your way out.
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  hey i'm new here

  by damienexists in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  heyo, my name is damien, i'm a trans teenager, and i'm a non practicing jehovah's witness, or deist.

  i came here to find other people like me and also to ask if i can be a practicing jehovah's witness and be trans?

  or would i have to say i'm cis and hope they believe me?.

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  Hi Damien, welcome!

  i agree with the comment above.

  i think it’s all about being yourself and not assuming another identity to please those around you.

  This religion is already hard as it it, the last thing you really need is to spend life living in fear and under judgement.

  Build good trustworthy friendships around you, these are important, people that you can rely on will always be worth their weight in gold.....and take it day by day, less stress will help you to make the best decisions that are right for you.

  Wishing you all the best Damien.
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  video games sports etc

  by Akid48 in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  maybe two or three weeks ago we had a meeting at the hall about sports which was pretty bad.why do they act like they support sports or videos while they say at the same time they say you can't do 90% of anything of those things,maybe the video says you can play sports here and there but then you have the social problem of brothers and sisters looking down on you for liking sports more or liking to watch sports more than take hours out of your day sitting down going over the watchtower or reading a bible.

  is it just me more i think as a teen you should at least being doing something even if its not sports maybe music or anything a teen likes,because every time i try and talk to a teen in the kingdom hall they seem off or flat out weird,its like there a different type of teen or something they cant relate to anything that you would usually talk about i don't know there just off and i feel like locking them up and locking there brains is just horrible..

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  Theonlyoneleft

  Hey there Akid48,

  i think I understand where your are coming from.

  I have nephews and nieces in the “tooth” and I see that all xtra activities are non existent, but the parents tend to organise outside KH activities (with jws teens) and gatherings/picnics so their children are still involved with something.

  But this is abroad in my country of birth, where I live another sibling has the difficulty to this same thing.

  i think probably depends also if the congregation has a good level of young people to join in.

  Do you know the candy crush game? A while back there was a talk in the local KH about playing it. The speaker mentioned how sisters obsessed with the game would forget to make dinner or to prepare for service and meetings.

  Ridiculous!!!

  Many went home to delete this game from their devices.

  I think this sports/ games question is very much linked with “whatever makes go astray, you must stay way from” idea. It’s again a control tactic used to keep those that want and need from enjoying themselves.

  Sports and games don’t have to be about competition or not doing your studies. It can be about learning tactics, keeping fit, building social skills and making friends... all we need in the world around us, weather we are jws or not.

  So maybe this should be your approach, maybe just maybe... as long as you are demonstrating that you are learning something positive from it, Maybe you’ll be able to get away with it.

  Good luck 🙂
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  Help is at hand.

  by Theonlyoneleft in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  needed to share.

  check this video out if you have the time.

  https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=-efxcobj1vk.

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  Theonlyoneleft

  Needed to share. Check this video out if you have the time. Might help someone out there 🙂🙂

  https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=-efxCObJ1Vk
  
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  Ladies and Gents.... Domestic violence!

  by Theonlyoneleft in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  domestic violence in the “tooth”... is this a thing?!.

  you are starting to know me by now as i’m always full of questions... my clogs are always in motion and never stop... so another question for you to give me some guidance if you can.

  based on pasts experience or cases you might heard of or seen, what advice could you give me in helping someone that is a jehovah witness, married with another jw but lives a marriage that is plagued by emotional domestic abuse and financial control?

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  Theonlyoneleft

  Sugglebunny,

  no one should have to endure such treatments. I’m with you.

  And no man or woman should be submissive to each other. Should always be a partner in life instead of what the WT teaches.

  They teach us that everything is solvable under Jehovah God, so many just stay and trust that this is the best for them and their family.

  This train of thought makes so many a prisoner.

  If nothing else WT should have proper guidance on this matters... they send brothers to become lawyers, others to train and gain skills that they can use in Bethels.... why not also have a department that helps people with their mental health? After all.... they are MEANT to love and look after their flock.

  Thank you for sharing.