Thank you for your explanation.
It’s a very thin line to thread for those that are put under stresses just because it’s the household way.
In my time seemed simpler. When my sister was disfellowshipped, she stayed home even thought another sister was baptised jw. Family ties didn’t get cut off, everything was as it was at home. She was later re instated... like YEARS after.
These days seems to me that things move much faster. And that’s it, no ifs no buts. Thanks again.