Thanks so much 4 this post...as a jw child who just recently finished my Bachelor's degree while living with JW parent who opposed.....i just want to tell all the other youth who want out to know that it is possible to leave! I cant emphasise it enough to NEVER GET BAPTISED! It is how they exercise power over you and they use it to make you feel guilty and extremely imperfect. You have to build a team of support outside the JW compound in order to survive. Be highly selective with who you share you desire to leave with, even other youths will try to railroad you and report u because they seek prominance in the Org. Im at the phase before the grand exit....let me tell you tell you the feeling of dying on the inside is an understatement. It feels worse, everything associated with the WTBTS is a lost cause and dead to you. Yet you cant speak a word against it. Hang in there...as the saying goes......fail to plan....and you will plan to fail.
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How to make your exit with minimal pain while still living at home with your parents
by sseveninches inas requested, i've made a new thread with the info i posted on a previous thread.
this is intended for young jws who have woken up from their anesthesia but still cannot move, or in other words, have learned ttatt but are still living with parents and are afraid of getting kicked out if they make their opinions/findings known.
i am included in this group of people, because i myself still live at home with parents.
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Blondie's Comments You Will Not Hear at the 08-12-2012 WT Study (SHORTLY)
by blondie inhttp://exjehovahswitnessforum.yuku.com.
http://www.jwsupportforum.com/index.php.
http://www.jehovahswitnessrecovery.com/.
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This entire article is garbage! A few years ago the toes meant something, now they are completely insignificant! WTF type of holy, pure and just God commands his people to be taught something that is a total lie two to five years from now?! I just dont understand how they dont see that the WTBS is the main one sleeping with "harlot"...hek they have a key to her house..lol!..they blatently hold ties with the UN its all over the net! Are they that careless?
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How many JW pedofiles do you personally know?
by oldlightnewshite ini was just thinking that out of the 200 jws that i actually know, at least 4 of them to my knowledge are pedophiles.
i know for a fact, through personal confidences.
that means, as far as my circle of jovo friends/acquaintances goes, 2% of them are kiddy fiddlers.. without mentioning names or details, how many do you know of for a certainty to be pedos, and what percentage does it work out at, considering all your circle of jovo friends?.
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I know of one personally. He got caught and has been sentanced to prison for abusing minor children. I always thought the behavior of his own children was wierd as I was a child growing up , they didnt act normally, now I know why.
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WT Sells First Property for $7.1M
by breakfast of champions injust found online.
the first of several properties in brooklyn heights that were recently put on the market by the jehovah's witnesses has been sold.
the price paid was $7.1 million, slightly under its asking price, according to massey knakal realty services, the brokerage that was retained to sell three of the witnesses' buildings valued at a total of $18.45 million in the neighborhood.. the five-story, 20-unit elevator building at 50 orange st. was sold in an all cash deal, said robert knakal, chairman of the brokerage.
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The sad part about this is that none of the 7.1 million dollars will go to the struggling faithful followers who cant afford their rent or mortgages cuz they gave it all to Jehovah...buying their salvation
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Variance On College
by metatron inthere seem to be some more upscale congregations in which the college thing is no big deal as long as the witness kids live at home and at least pretend to be witnesses.
this includes bachelors degrees in tech subjects, not just 2 years of nursing.. there might be some realization that, in rich areas, congegations aren't viable without education.. metatron .
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They claim that they have "rules" on attending college but its a total lie.
I used to go to a cong. that was in an affluent part of the town...all the college aged kids were actively persuing a college degree including myself. One elder was a doctor, and a handfull of others had Bachelors or Masters degrees. We've since moved to a congregation where most people are 42 y/o or older and the total attitude toward college is extremely to the left. They still believe you can make a living in a metropolitian city on a trade school job. There is a stark difference in location and attitude towards education.
Im glad people are getting college educated....less money for the WT!
They deserve it, you dont see the C.O. visiting congregations and paying past due mortages, light bills, and medical expenses of "faithfull servants" do you? No they are the main ones receiving green handshakes from struggling bible thumpers! Meanwhile the WT has a surplus of money numbering in the hundreds of millions....SMH
They could never get me to buy into just getting a trade......I wanna eat steak and shrimp every night! Advanced degree=Me!
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Jaw Dropping Comments/ Statements From the Sunday Meeting
by TheOutSpoken1 innow that my eyes have been completely open to the total falsehood of the jw's i just cant sit thru another meeting and hear some of the most craziest statements without an absolutely crazy look on my face... so to spite my mother who hates that i dont listen to anything they have to say from the podium, i took notes.....haha notes of all the insane staments i heard.
public talk.
"young people are pulled away (from the lie) by mountain climbing, volcanoe's and skydiving" .
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Now that my eyes have been completely open to the total falsehood of the JW's I just cant sit thru another meeting and hear some of the most craziest statements without an absolutely crazy look on my face... so to spite my mother who hates that I dont listen to anything they have to say from the podium, I took notes.....haha notes of all the insane staments I heard. For your entertainment here are the craziest statements from the meeting on Sunday! Enjoy!
Public Talk
"young people are pulled away (from the lie) by mountain climbing, volcanoe's and skydiving"
I said to my mother: "I dont know about you but Im not seeking out and trying to climb into any nearby active volcanoes very soon...... she shushed me...lol
Washtowel discussion
puppet from the podium:"Did you think your children would ever get old and have children of their own (audience shakes their head no)....you thought armagettum was around the corner????....(audience shakes head yes)...thats good......armagettum's still close!"
brother righteous: "In 66' when we come into the lie, the brother's said congradulations! you barely made it, aramagettum is around the corner........here it is 2011, armageddon isnt here....but we are."
puppet from the podium (interjects): "armagettum is still around the corner."
My mouth was on the floor.......how brainwashed can you be?....the fact that they agree to the belief, all heads nodding in agreement (you thought it was around the corner)......SMH Liars!
Signing Off,
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My guitar was in that wheel barrel.
by Quarterback inwell, i may be overeacting....i may be sensitive.....it may be sad....it may be the silly comments heard at the wt meeting.
however, there it was in the study article ...a picture of some sad looking, unhappy runners (the kind of look that the org inflicts on us) .
for the first time i looked at that guy with the wheel barrel.
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I thought the guitar in the wheel barrel was hilarious first because the son of a brother at the hall plays drums for his high school and the oldest sister couldnt wait to comment and point out that extracurricular activities "like playing the drums" was extra weight....I bet his son wanted to run out of the room. Secondly, since the JW's are forced to stay away from the internet, and NOT watch television.....some learn how to play instruments to stay somewhat sane.....if instruments are the devil what shall happen next? DUN DUN DUNNNNNNN! LOL
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Newbie to the Boards !
by TheOutSpoken1 inid like to introduce my self as im new......a lil nervous but ready to have some conversation that doesnt require me to rely on old men in ny to think for me.
im tired of the puppetteering, the sly green handshakes to move up, the lies turned into new light- "what happened to yes means yes?
", just has the makings of a bad ponzi scheme in my opinion...i officially begun my fade this year.....and im enjoying it.
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My story began when my father was taken under by the JW's after a nasty split with my DFmum.....you know the old brotherhood...new family....went straight to his head.
No time passed until a poor as dirt sister with 2 kids came to my fathers rescue and became the ready made step mom from you know where.
I wasnt born in....but have been around it since childhood....was put under intense pressure by the BOE @ my local cong and my parents to get dipped before 18......worst mistake of my life....what could I have possibly known about the symbolism and alternative meanings of biblical text......all I liked was the group outings and "association".
Little did I know that all 3 of my siblings didnt agree with the "Truth". Secretely they kept quiet to not be labeled and outcasted. I had dreams of college after H.S. nothing in this world was going to stop me from going......successfully im in my fourth year and completing soon. College brought on going through the motions to keep my father at bay. I am under the impression that my father cant serve at his cong due to me being a full time student, in an attempt to please them he withdrew his support ($) only contributing what was necessary. Thanks to all that bible dicipline I received a full scholarship for every year....I dont need his money.
What has pushed me to this point was my last attendance at a assembly where they announced new light (I was awake for this part) LOL....they slyly took something that they stated as fact and totally changed it to something new.....and then called it new light.... led me to question "divine inspiration", consistency in doctrine....so on and so forth.
Im pretty open to discussion, I havent lost faith in god...just organized religion.
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Newbie to the Boards !
by TheOutSpoken1 inid like to introduce my self as im new......a lil nervous but ready to have some conversation that doesnt require me to rely on old men in ny to think for me.
im tired of the puppetteering, the sly green handshakes to move up, the lies turned into new light- "what happened to yes means yes?
", just has the makings of a bad ponzi scheme in my opinion...i officially begun my fade this year.....and im enjoying it.
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Ak-Jeff Totally didnt mean to post in technical support.......Im new forgive me..
Thanks to you all for the welcome......
Leavingwt- havent read any outside book as of yet, last year of college keeps me tied up.....however im really into using their own material, such as contradictions and plagerized statements to show their hypocritical error.
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Newbie to the Boards !
by TheOutSpoken1 inid like to introduce my self as im new......a lil nervous but ready to have some conversation that doesnt require me to rely on old men in ny to think for me.
im tired of the puppetteering, the sly green handshakes to move up, the lies turned into new light- "what happened to yes means yes?
", just has the makings of a bad ponzi scheme in my opinion...i officially begun my fade this year.....and im enjoying it.
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TheOutSpoken1
Hello to all,
Id like to introduce my self as im new......a lil nervous but ready to have some conversation that doesnt require me to rely on old men in NY to think for me. Im tired of the puppetteering, the sly green handshakes to move up, the lies turned into new light- "what happened to yes means yes?", just has the makings of a bad ponzi scheme in my opinion...I officially begun my fade this year.....and im enjoying it