When i was about 17 a much older friend told me something about sex i never forget his comment was something like:
Shortly before you marry you find out that your future wife does not know how to cook anything
(in the female case that he is not a handyman, can not fix anything around the house.)
or does not make much money at work
or needs to wear glasses
or is missing a finger or two
or does not know what an email is
etc etc
You still marry the person, most likely.
BUT if your future wife (or husband) CAN NOT HAVE SEX for some reason.
What will you do? where are your PRIORITIES?
he or she loves you, sincerily, but last thing he has in mind is sex.
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BTW when i married,, the first night i did not touch my wife, why hurrry? I just changed priorities for a day or two.