I love this place too and have made so many great friends online and have found long lost friends who have also left the organization.
You shouldn't be suprised that there are others like you sweetie. Variety is the spice of life. I enjoy watching bi sexual porns with my hubby everyday and maybe one day we will fulfill our fantasies.
Welcome and may you enjoy your stay with us in here,
Love ya
Orangefatcat
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i still can't believe this
by airwlk149 ini still cannot believe i found this site.. there are so many people here that sound so much like me (except.
the whole lesbian thang!
i love you all who hang in there by being out!.
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Who's mail is "lipstik01"?
by gumby indoes anyone get mail here that you do not recognize, and so you delete it when it, may be someone from the board here responding to your post?.
lipstik01 mailed me but when i started to open it i got a warning that opening this could cause computor problems.. has there ever been a virus sender from this board?
( i'm not implying you are "lipstik"... whoever you are)
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I have been having major problems with my new computer and apparently I have had several viruses sent to me, but I don't know from whom. I think my computer is so buggered up that I have to take it back to the place I bought it. My son is a computer whiz and he can't figure what has happened either. Thank God for warranties.
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Depressed or suicidal? Do NOT call a doctor!
by flower in*** awake!
1975 august 22 p.25 *** .
is the turning of people from the clergy to the psychiatrists a healthy phenomenon?
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ohhhhhhhhhhh boy do I feel your rage Flower, and you had every right to feel that way. I sometimes think of the times I almost drove my car into a tree or two, but I am so grateful I didn't, I guess I had an inner strength that I didn't realize I had. Mind you if someone had told me that at the time I would not have believed them. There was one sister who was very kind to me, her husband an elder told her not to get involved with me and my problems. He was a selfish buzzard and I never did like him and I often wondered what my friend saw in him. She died when she was 49yrs old of liver cancer. She was the sweetest person and I will alway remember her with fondness. When I stop to think of the day I almost drove my car of the Champlain Bridge in Montreal I cringe..I never realized how people in the organization can drive a person to disperation. They don't care no not really, they just have to make it look like they care. I know of a friend of mine who was desperate for understanding by the elders when she came forward as an adult to tell them that her father sexual abused her until age 18, she was not really normal, but a real nice and caring person non the less. The elders just brushed her aside and cared less about her. At the meetings she would pass out on the floor and would need assistance and I guess it was to much of a nuisance for the brothers in the hall to handle and so they told her husband that she shouldn't come to the meetings. But the elders wouldn't get the telephone hook up either for her. Knowing what she had told me in utmost confidence I knew that the elders would treat her differently.
The elders only criticized instead of helping her through her difficulties. Her husband was a strange duck, and no one ever bothered with them. Its so sad to see how some are treated terribly.
They would give you the shirt off their backs, but no one would do for them and I know people would laugh about them.
I get enraged when I see how the lowly and ill are ignored while those with money and class go everywhere in the organization. Talk about cliques, they exist everywhere and gossip well that sends chills down my spine, I hate gossip and there was always plenty of it in the congregation I was in. It was terrible how they would sneer or say unkind things about others in the hall. I know I was the topic of gossip lots of times as BFD told me this and she and I are soulmates kindred spirits. She is my bestest buddy.. Flower you are truly a good and sincere person and like you it was our sons that kept us going through think and thin. Bless you. Now I feel better, I had to let off some steam. -
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Dateline - reactions the morning after.
by dmouse inwhat happens the morning after dateline?
how will most jws react?
these are my thoughts on the matter, which, of course, are open to debate:.
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Can't You see the Catholic Church Gloating??
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Depressed or suicidal? Do NOT call a doctor!
by flower in*** awake!
1975 august 22 p.25 *** .
is the turning of people from the clergy to the psychiatrists a healthy phenomenon?
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Excellent post Flower,
I am not one to admit very often that I suffered three mental breakdowns. Its something that one doesn't really like to discuss for all the reason that are stated already in here, I mean I remember when I needed help after a severe breakdown the people who were in my congreagation avoided me like typhoid Mary. Prior to this time I had been a pioneer and had an active part in the Ministry School almost every week, I could do a talk on the spur of the moment. And I always had parts on the service meetings. I was considered spiritually strong person. However after a very severe personal crisis with my husband and family, I had this breakdown. As for those who were closest to me,they didn't bother with me, they thought I had the plauge or something. Oh they expressed concern in their way.I remember I wouldn't see a therapist as it was considered as stated in that 1975 WT magazine that mature Christians need only rely on Jehovah and the elders to pray and assist them and that Jehovah was the greatest therapist of all. My ministry faultered because of the rift that now existed between my family and myself. I lost 227 pounds in one yr. I was an absoulte basket case. My doctor begged me to see a therapist but I kept refusing. Finally one day when I found out I was pregnant with my son, I felt I needed to talk to someone who could see me through all the anguish I had been put through. Going to the therapist was the greatest thing I ever did in my life. Finally I began to slowly realize that I was not responsible for what my husband and family did to me and if they couldn't accept me for who I was then it was their problem not mine. It took only seven yrs of intense therapy to overcome that pain and mental and emotional abuse I endured for years. In fact it was not until 1991 that I found out that my ex husband was a liar and he did everything within his power to make me dislike my parents. He played me like a puppet on a string. When I asked my ex way he did what he did, he said to me," get over it, it was yrs ago and I don't remember what happened". Well that was a filthy lie right there. The elders were no help over the yrs and I started to feel like they don't give a dam about anyone who has been ill mentally of emotinaly. They brush you aside. Well guess what I brushed them aside when I gained the courage to step out of my marriage and the organization all in one day. I have not looked back and have never regretted the steps I took to free myself from the bondage of a so called caring organization. My therapists over the yrs cared more about my well being then my family. If it had not been for my family doctor insisting and pleading with me to go I would probably still be a mess. I thank this board and Simon and all of you who have the courage to tell your stories so that others may gain an insite to themselves and know that they are not alone in their battle of survival. I just want all of you to know how much I care and appreciate so many of you. Bless all of you
Orangefatcat.HINDSIGHT IS 20/20
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My Experience Today with My Brother
by Reborn2002 inwell, my brother and his wife came over to my parent's house to visit today while i was home.. to make a long story short, while my brother and his wife were chatting with my mother in the living room, my 1 and a half year old nephew reilly walked into the kitchen where i was making a caesar salad.. he walked over towards me and was smiling, how can any normal adult resist the innocent smile of a child who is your relative?
i picked him up and gave him a huge hug, and told him i loved him.. as i was holding my nephew in my arms, my brother walked into the room.
he was smack dab in the middle of an in-depth conversation about jehovah with my mother and his wife, and i admit i was rolling my eyes listening to him spew about the "truth" and "the only means for salvation in the last days of this wicked system" even though when i confronted him with info on the un, blood, russell gravesite, rape changes, exclusivity, etc, he had no response for me because he was dumbfounded and lost for words.
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Wow, judge and jury all in one. I wonder who appointed him to be like that? I wonder if he knows that the scriptures say that God is our judge.
Yes he is definitely warped, braindead, brainwashed, and plain rude. What a terrible thing to say about you in front of his young son, I see how that can perpetuate that kind of hatred.. in his son so that he will think it is okay to call someone wicked. Yes instill that loving quality in your young ones. What a moron. And I am so glad you took it and didn't retaliate in front of the boy. You are the better person by far. I think your brother got the point. Sometimes silence is the better part of valour.
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Do you squeeze your bag?
by Beans ini heard that when you make tea that you are not to squeeze the bag, is this true?
what if it is herbal tea?
why not squeeze your bag?
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My husband doesn't enjoy 69, for one slip of the tounge he's in shit.
hehe haha
He prefers the fastest 4 handed game in the world, when a dick slips out.P.S. He is a shit disturber, why cause he's a GREEK!!
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I'm pulling out the gun .... I SWEAR!
by BobsGirl inholy crap!!!
if i hear one more ...... "pedophilia exists everywhere" excuse from a d*** jw troll ... i am going to start shooting i swear!!.
the simple fact of the matter is that they claim to be gods earthly organization.
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Touchee Naeblis!!
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Causing 'Chaos' @ District Conventions ....
by invisible inceltic here.. i realise many of you are not yet upto scratch on downright going for the society, that's cool.. for those of you more radical activists out there, what better possible manner in which to cause major disruption and to teach something of our aims to a potential massive audience, than to attend a district convention near you.. saucepans and sticks don't half make one hell of a din.. digital cameras are cool too to record all activity and to possibly edit later on for possible leverage with media bodies interested in the event etc.. the point is, is to have a watertight angle on which to go in on, to cause the best possible effect to our strategic advantage.
that means imforming the media of our presence in advance plus many other initiatives that will be described as part of a longer post on this subject tomorrow.. take a leaf out of the uk road protesters and anti global capitalists book, they could teach us a thing or two.. so who's up from you bunch of slackers, for causing major disruptions this year?
bring your wire snippers with you.. peace.
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I think that if you decide to act up at a convention and be a nusiance, then it gives the WTBS to say that we are disruptive and arrogant and trouble makers. Why don't we let their words and actions speak volumes when it comes time to pay the piper. I mean the society is going to be smeared big time by television and the news media. Our acting like jerks will do nothing for our cause. Silence is the better part of Valour.
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Do you squeeze your bag?
by Beans ini heard that when you make tea that you are not to squeeze the bag, is this true?
what if it is herbal tea?
why not squeeze your bag?
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Beans Beans Beans only you could think of something like this!! Of course I know you and your sexual inuendos!! You sausy boy you..
But if at any time you need to have your bag squeezed give me a call, I will gladly do it anytime!! .
Oranagefatcat