OTWO
Me and my wife are at the same empasse as you are. She knows I can turn all the faulty reasoning she uses to justify the WTS on its ear and expose it's self serfing nature. She also hasn't pull the "you're of Satan" card with me either, at least not to my face.
That would probably be THE last straw for me. If I am to be so Satanic as to have have provided her the privilege of not having to work for the last 15 years, she'd be challenged to see if her precious WT Soceity and her "friends" would be so benevolent.