Hi,
I'm also gay, born in and never baptised left on my 21st birthday and about to have my 10th anniversary with my partner in Jan.
It does get better. My teenage years like most gay JW kids was hell. It was such a relief to get out into the real world.
There is a gayexjw support group on Facebook with over 500 members here. http://www.facebook.com/groups/37475079005/
and also A Common Bond http://www.gayxjw.org/
Brad