It is no secret that elders will often actively warn others to not associate with you when you have ceased involvement due to reasons of discontent with certain policies or practices within the organization.
Often these elders will make reference to "apostasy" in connection with your name and strongly discourage association with you.
The funny thing is, often you have enough friends within the organization that maintain a measure of loyalty to you as a friend and will pass on information to you if they have been cautioned by elders against association with you.
I personally find this offensive and unacceptable. While no one can force people to associate with them, elders who actively discourage association with you and lead JW associates to believe you are an apostate are deliberately damaging your character among your peers. If you are an apostate you should be disfellowshipped as an apostate. If you are not disfellowshipped for apostasy and they are not engaged in proceedings to that effect then they have no business stating or implying such to others. IMO they need to be called on this when they reduce themselves to such behavior.
Elders must maintain confidentiality when it comes to their flocks and should not be discussing reasons even for a judicial committee with anyone outside that committee. They certainly should be above gossip and slander. I would send a letter to the congregation and one to Brooklyn stating that you have witnesses to slanderous comments regarding you and that you will not continue tolerating this behavior if it continues.
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