7 uber, suuuper indoctrinated dubwubs in a room together
Yeah this was the first mistake. Why have this format, where you gather several JWs in a room to engage on what will likely be a debate? Even if you were making sense on those points, they will not want to concede in front of their peers. You should have a more casual one on one with them.
Anyway, the thing that pisses me off the most, is that they want us to just be inactive so they can keep talking to us.
Yes and they are probably right about this. What is the value of disassociating? By doing that, you are just validating their own governance policy and their rules. You should recognize that their process for disassociating is as ridiculous as everything else about their religion. Just walk away and be done with it.