It is a quandary when you get talking to an Elderly J W who has not woken up, knowing the circumstances of a few like this that I have spoken to, I refrain from trying to waken them at all, believing the kindest thing is to leave them in their Support System.
If I later find out I made the wrong decision, perhaps one of them will wake up and berate me for NOT telling them, but at least then I can say, " Well I really did have your best interests at heart", the alternative, waking them up then they end up lonely, with no support, is too much responsibility for me.
I wonder how many like that old gentleman and his wife exist in the Ranks of JW's ? Probably a lot that kinda feel it is all bullshit, and a few, like him, who have researched, and KNOW it is.
Personally, if I woke up at age 80 or over I would still leave, even if it meant being lonely, and without the support of JW's. This is the decision I made when in my late 50's, and would do the same again, but that is just me. I think people should do what they feel is right for them.