Posts by Khaleesi

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Where are you from?

by BeautifulMind in

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i know we are all anonymous for our own personal reasons, so i understand if you would rather not say.

but if you don't mind sharing that would be cool.

i currently live in georgia, usa.

Leah Remini talks about her new book - October 30, 2015 at 10:00pm Eastern Time - on ABC News 20/20

by Faithful Witness in

first look at leah remini exclusive: 'being critical of tom cruise is being critical of scientology itself'.

abc news.

actress leah remini reveals in an exclusive interview with abc news 20/20 how tom cruise was one of the factors that led her to break from the church of scientology.. being critical of tom cruise is being critical of scientology itself... you are evil, remini told abcs dan harris in a new promotional clip from the interview.. remini, 45, describes how she and her family joined the church when she was a young girl, built a successful acting career in hollywood while being a diligent scientologist, and how she eventually decided to sever ties with the church.. as time goes on, you start to lose touch with the real world.

Khaleesi

Watching it right now, west coast, errie feeling of the similarities with JW/WT, "certain terminology" used & if against your labeled as an "apostate" & when children sign a "billionaire contract" sounds like being baptized as a JW signing a lifetime contact with the WT... very interesting... thanks for the heads up

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Full 2015 Annual Meeting Program

by wifibandit in

https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=plrw9u-n1z2m8peenfmbdxmvbdkum0ce1n.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uppgsfl6o5k.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b9j8ivkmkvk.

Khaleesi

How many of these "new understandings" will continue? The bible has NOT changed!! For a moment there I thought he was going to say they were in Babylon captivity until 1930...

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Hubby has been doing research on the internet!!!!

by atacrossroads in

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friends

my husband was recently subjected to an intervention by his parents.

i am apparently a danger to his spirituality.

after i stopped attending meetings and went apostate hubby decided to resign as a ms to spend more time with me.

Khaleesi

Atacrossroads: sooo happy for youuu don't worry he will discover it on his own & in that way he could rightly say you didn't put "doubts" in him this was all his decision!! Soo excited & once he discovers TTATT on his own your marriage will be sooo much strong!

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heartbroken and not sure what to do...

by Khaleesi in

i don't know what to do.... i married last year and things have been very rocky.

we dated for 4 years and did have normal issues but always had a lingering doubt something was just not right in our relationship-behavior to be more specific, he is not a jw, but i am.

yes i know i married outside the "lord" but after my first marriage to a jw ended in divorce for physical abuse, i was glad i didn't married another jw.

Khaleesi

Major blowout with husband, in my heart I feel like I can't do anything else in this situation, if I stay I will continue to compromise what my needs are as a woman & wife.. when I open my heart to him where I am coming from according to him im always complaining, he won't see things in my perspective & never will it's been this way for a while, I don't feel I have the liberty of expressing myself to him without him getting agitated, defensive & upset without him acussing me of complaining & " talking sh#t", I've felt a sense of emotional isolation & lonleness in this relationship for sometime I'm afraid it's not going to change, I'm just being drag along with it, he says he's stress & each time I'm told "I'm causing him anxiety", I'm mentally exhausted.... this is soo hard to do but I've survived worse than this... I'm going to ask him to leave the house & file for divorce

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Bethel Layoffs In Australia Confirmed

by jonahstourguide in

yes, last week the number of bethel layoffs was confirmed from 90 to 125. .

and those going in thinking they may be there for some time have been told.

that they may be there for two months rather than 3 years depending on .

Khaleesi

With that how can they say they are being bless by God?... they build their retirement home by free labor & now they layoff workers worldwide? Where's the blessings in that? Wonder how would elders respond when asked. ...

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How "aboat" those Royals!

by KC_ROYALS in

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woohoo!

how "aboat" em?

congrats, kansas city!

Khaleesi

Ya ay y royals!!!

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the problem with you, apostates, is that your doubts were not genuine

by never a jw in

in page 10 of the correspondence guidelines, in the section of apostasy" i found the following:.

one who has sincere doubts orquestions should be kindly aided inthe spirit of galatians.... i am forced to conclude that many of you didn't get any aid because your doubts were fake.

so according to the wt manual, your main sin may have not been doubting, but faking having doubts.

Khaleesi

You can have doubts just as long as you come to the conclusion & answers they expect you to.... if you have legitimate doubts that exposes the WT, according to their guidelines you are not sincere but fake... it comes down to you have to agree with all their teachings regardless. .. loyalty to an org, rather than your conscious

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Hello from an exmormon

by Cold-Dodger in

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someone named john free popped in on one of my posts at exmormon[dot]com and mentioned this website.

i have a lot of questions.

i never knew much about about the jw church.

Khaleesi

Hi, welcome I have a question, what happens to those who disagree with teachings as taught by the Mormon church?

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heartbroken and not sure what to do...

by Khaleesi in

i don't know what to do.... i married last year and things have been very rocky.

we dated for 4 years and did have normal issues but always had a lingering doubt something was just not right in our relationship-behavior to be more specific, he is not a jw, but i am.

yes i know i married outside the "lord" but after my first marriage to a jw ended in divorce for physical abuse, i was glad i didn't married another jw.

Khaleesi

Witness my fury: no he doesn't look at porn, he would be honest with me about that, I asked and I even said "if you do it's okay I understand but just be honest with me" he says no and I believe him, he says he has no interest in watching porn I even suggested ( just to see what he says) and again an adamant no. You are right about tolerating it I wouldn't, i caught my 1st husband with it and i was furious, but with this situation I was willing to try anything... He doesn't masturbate, I suggested that too after a DR. told him too, he says he "I just don't have the interest of doing that, it does nothing to me" ... He was taking the brown & Blue pill and I think he has gotten used to the fact "I don't have any pills it won't work, I know my body"... He did have a great drive when we first started going out for the 2 years when I decided to come back from being DF, we stopped because of you know the fornication thing, he admitted to me recently that it changed on his part because we stopped and this is were I think the Aspies thing is, Aspies love routine you take them out of that routine it's distress for them and then the routine of nothing for 2 years until we got married, but he agreed to it at that time to wait to make it special I can pick up my drive like nothing. He had a great drive not sure where did it go.....Can you explain what you mean I didn't get this part: Maybe your gaydar doesnt work? You missed the aspergers after all. (sorry)

dubstepped: I naturally always had a good drive 3-4 is low average for me, my ex hubs and I never had an issue it was constantly, at least once a day, our drives matched... No I don't have a whole to fill in, intimacy whether in the bedroom, outside, like holding hands, kissing, hugging, affection are all essential to my being, I am a natural lovable person and intimacy/sex is like the icing of the cake for me, some people love to receive gifts and being given lots of words of affirmation of how great they are, tooo me all physical touch is very important for me. I love closeness, I love fulfilling my partner in every aspect and I am very selfless, even when I am tired and sleepy if he would to wake me up or come on to me I would give in to him because I want to share that closeness with him, it's not just sex, its intimacy of the it would keeps me watered in love, hard to explain... telling him no even if I am very tired is like I am punishing myself too because I want that closeness and will find the will power to share it with him, I guess I am just very selfless in that area, I never say no and I never reject him because I know the times he's done that to me it feels awful. I went to the doctor myself and he says its normal and many men will kill to have their wife's interested in sex/intimacy....He is open to go see a professional to help with his anxiety... I guess I don't want 5 years from now being in this same situation and wasted 5 years, scares are being rooted in me and I don't want it to get to a point were I start having security issues.