Sorry man, this is a rough place
uoi called it though. She's numb.
shes drawing closer to Borg and pushing you out. She probably feels as though YOU are ruining HER family
at some point she'll begin getting advice on how to leave you.
I suggest opening a safe deposit box and parking cash in there ASAP
Use cash withdrawals at Walmart when you make a purchase to mask the withdrawals.
Shell be getting LOTS of advice from professional divorces' on how to take you for everything soon enough if not already