moe, i'm happy your friend contacted you! you've given her a lot info that will take her some time to digest. hopefully, she will continue to question and not slip back into the don't ask mode. i wish you the best with her! i'd just reassure her that you will remain her friend even if she doesn't come to that same conclusions as you. sometimes even with all the facts about the jws staring them in the face, they at first need to know that your friendship will never be based on their spirituality or lack thereof. hugs to you and your friend :)
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