Can anyone tell me if there is a scripture that says no man knows the heart condition except Jah.
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Need help looking for scripture
by tif21 incan anyone tell me if there is a scripture that says no man knows the heart condition except jah..
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Is my marriage worth saving?
by sacdfan inlong story - will make it short - i was a jw for 4 years.
hy husband took to it straigt away and has been a jw for 20 years - we were both converted by one of his workmates.
our 4 kids were all baptised jws and thankfully 3 escaped (2 disfellowshipped, one fading) - so my eldest son is still in with his dad.
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tif21
DJeggnog, WALK A MILE IN OUR SHOES AND SEE HOW YOU LIKE IT.
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Is my marriage worth saving?
by sacdfan inlong story - will make it short - i was a jw for 4 years.
hy husband took to it straigt away and has been a jw for 20 years - we were both converted by one of his workmates.
our 4 kids were all baptised jws and thankfully 3 escaped (2 disfellowshipped, one fading) - so my eldest son is still in with his dad.
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tif21
There is no justice for women like us. How could he leave you and go to another country? Why do we stay? The hurt will never go away until we say enough is enough. Maybe it is time for us to move on.
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Is my marriage worth saving?
by sacdfan inlong story - will make it short - i was a jw for 4 years.
hy husband took to it straigt away and has been a jw for 20 years - we were both converted by one of his workmates.
our 4 kids were all baptised jws and thankfully 3 escaped (2 disfellowshipped, one fading) - so my eldest son is still in with his dad.
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tif21
Like my father would say " A PRICK HAS NO CONSCIOUS" In the last two years he has given me $1000. dollars, a coat, pair of boots, and a new cell phone. He gives more to the cong a year, maybe that's why he hasn't lost any priviledges. He prays, give talks, reader, greeter, toilet cleaner. As far as I'm concerned he is two slips of paper a check and time slip. The golden years aren't so golden. Can't travel no vacations anymore because of the advocate form. He might have to take them on vacation. Is your name of that form?
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Is my marriage worth saving?
by sacdfan inlong story - will make it short - i was a jw for 4 years.
hy husband took to it straigt away and has been a jw for 20 years - we were both converted by one of his workmates.
our 4 kids were all baptised jws and thankfully 3 escaped (2 disfellowshipped, one fading) - so my eldest son is still in with his dad.
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tif21
Sacdfan,
Thanks for your reply. Can I ask if your name is on your husbands patient advocate form? I will leave when my elderly parent who lives with me passes. I have asked her if she would go with me and she said this is my home. I know that if I take her out of this house she would die of a broken heart she will be 90 years old this year and is not in good health.
You are young and can make a life for yourself. It's hard to live everyday knowing that you are not really a marriage mate. This religion is a joke and teaches hate. Don't let your husband use you like I continue to be used. It's hard to live with someone who does not trust you and treats you like shit. I have asked him more than once for a divorce, but if that were to happen he would loose his priviledges in the org. So the hell he has created for me to live in is the same hell he lives in. I don't know how these men can go to meetings and door to door knowing how we are treated. They are Brain Dead.
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Is my marriage worth saving?
by sacdfan inlong story - will make it short - i was a jw for 4 years.
hy husband took to it straigt away and has been a jw for 20 years - we were both converted by one of his workmates.
our 4 kids were all baptised jws and thankfully 3 escaped (2 disfellowshipped, one fading) - so my eldest son is still in with his dad.
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tif21
Sacdfan,
My heart aches for you, as you and I are in the same place. Only difference is I am maried 45 years and within the last three years and I have found out things about my mate to prove that I have no place in his life. I walked out of the KH in 1984 and never went back. Hubby was removed as a elder because of his actions. He left the family put us on welfare and almost lost my home. He returned 9 month later to forgive and forget. He never forgave me on the inside, but acted out the action on the outside. 7 years ago I found out that he never put my name back of the savings account. Reason he does not trust me, second reason he claims he forgot to put me back on the account. Talks out of both sides of his mouth. He had to put me back on the account in order to get a loan for a car. That was in 2003. Even though the account is in my name I have no idea what he has in savings or checking. Mind you I have worked outside the home for over 27 years and I still work part time because I cannot make ends meet on my small Social Security check. I have to buy all the food for the house, pay all of my deductibles, optical, medicine and clothing. 3 years ago I found his Patient Advocate form and my name is not on it. I knew nothing about this form and would like to see if anyone knows when this form was created. He told me he didn't trust me and that he knows my heart. No trust no marriage. I moved my clothing and personal items out of the bedroom and now I sleep in the basement. Funny thing is the elders know how I live and they have never said a word to him. If I had known how he felt about me years ago I would have gladly left him. I have told him to file for divorce and he won't even answer. He never misses a meeting, field service, April Pioneering and makes sure he give his contribution to the hall every month. They get more from him than I do and he is what you call a triiple dipper, Pension, Social Security and a job. At 65 its hard.
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Mentally Diseased Apostates to Survive Armageddon! - The WT says so!!!
by 00DAD inas i'm sure we all know by now, the july 15, 2011 watchtower branded "apostates" as "mentally diseased" (p. 16, para.
but never fear, because--also according to the wtbts--jehovah will take that into account at armageddon.
the wt says so, so it must be true!
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tif21
Now I'm confused. First I'm mentally diseased and now Jehovah will be the one who will consider the diseased people. GB, please make up you mind, you talk out of both sides of your mouth. So today am I mental or just a okay person?
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i am a regular pioneer in my cong reading crisis of conscience.here goes...
by MsGrowingGirl20 ini'm on page 90 right now...the info is definitely new and gives me a totally diff view as to how i used to think of faithful and discreet slave.
i was thoroughly disgusted with the way the brothers handled the oral sex and leadership problem and the insight on the scriptures book...... still have alot of questions though.
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tif21
Welcome, I am so glad to hear you are reading the book. Please don't put your trust in men.
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Patient Advocate Form
by tif21 ini would like to know if anyone can tell me how long has this form been out there.
found my husbands about a year ago and my name is not on it.
i made several copies for myself.
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tif21
I would like to know if anyone can tell me how long has this form been out there. Found my husbands about a year ago and my name is not on it. I made several copies for myself. One day I was feeling a little crafty so I went into his bedroom and took down the marriage license. I replaced it with a copy of his advocate form, after all why hide such a important form. He took it down once, but I put is back up. As far as I am concerned the people on that form are his wife, he can sleep with the fish.
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Do you think in time all jw's will leave the unbeliever?
by tif21 inwondering with all that has been said about the mentally diseased has anyone heard if a jw can divorce a disease mate?.
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tif21
Wondering with all that has been said about the mentally diseased has anyone heard if a jw can divorce a disease mate?