Emptyinside: It's always better to be honest up front in any relationship that you want to proceed with. When I was dating my second wife who is a baptist I told her I had something to tell her and she looked at me like OH GOD WHAT IS HE GOING TO SAY, so I said I'm an inactive and fading J.W. and she said is that it, I said yes, and she laughed and said that's not a problem. I was relieved because she is the best thing that has ever happened to me.
J-dubs think that you have to marry someone in your religion to be happy, but that is NOT the key to a happy marriage, you have to have more in common, likes and dislikes, recreation, money matters, education. I've learned that when it comes to money it's not YOUR money or MY money but it's OUR MONEY and you discuss everything. That's how it works folks!!
Be happy and don't let anyone or any CULT get in your way from attaining it.
Kojack