Beautiful freeman - I rejoice (hate that word! lol) in the experience you have had w/your son. I hope that someday you will experience this w/your wife and other son as well. Even if your son chooses to stay w/JW's, just by this conversation (and the many more to ensue over the years) will hopefully keep your family together.
Peace
Rhonda
(there's 10 of us in this body & rhonda can't talk all the time!)