Sorry to read about Oompa. I had a friend who committed suicide 15 years ago due to severe depression. I still think about him often and wish he were still here. I hope the JWs ho helped turn Oompa's world inside out feel remorse or some twinge of regret.
Anyone out there considering suicide, please get help. Your friends, family and any other people in your life never really will get over it and they'll always feel guilty for not having done enough.