I was always amazed by this. I was born in, never in trouble, regular meeting attender, auxiliary pioneered, worked for several years at branches in Central and South America and some in Africa.
But some Jack Hole could come in the truth brag that he had done every drug available and slept with hundreds of women and in less than five years was giving substantial talks at the circuit assembly and District Convention. Me, I was asked to either work in cleaning or the parking lot. I know, humility. I did what was asked but just never got it. Geezsh, I am so glad to be out of that crap.