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plmkrzy
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BESTIS FRIENDS IN THE WHOLE WORLD
by plmkrzy inwho was your very best childhood friend?
the one you shared secrets with.. describe your fondest memoire of your very best childhood friend.
even if it was your teddy bear!
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Would you let your kids bf/gf sleep-over?
by Abaddon inat what age would you be happy with your kid's boyfriend and girlfriend 'sleeping over'?.
would the rules be different for boys vs. girls?.
personally, i think given a choice between 'it' happening anyway god-knows-where and giving a suitably mature kid some privacy, i go for the privacy option.. what do you think?
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SYN
Although I suppose this sort of thing needs to be evaluated on a case-by-case basis.
**************************************************************Not that I think you are sticking up for me or anything like that so don't sweat,
I again completely agree with this statement as it is so true.SEE I bet I'v even said things to piss you off in the past.
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Would you let your kids bf/gf sleep-over?
by Abaddon inat what age would you be happy with your kid's boyfriend and girlfriend 'sleeping over'?.
would the rules be different for boys vs. girls?.
personally, i think given a choice between 'it' happening anyway god-knows-where and giving a suitably mature kid some privacy, i go for the privacy option.. what do you think?
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The fact that you ban them from sleeping with the opposite sex is not going to make them do it any less. In fact, it'll probably just keep their minds focused on the problem more than ever!!!
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That is absolutely correct. I can't imagine this day and age that more people don't realize that and especially when young kids numbering in the thoiusands have been and are in more trouble due to parents being in denial of what the teens are doing. Just about every couple of week's or so I see in the news and become more and more sickened by whats happening with young adults. So afraid of what people will think or do to them if they find out they are pregnant and resort to back alley abortions and even manage to carry the baby full term and throw it in the GARBAGE like trash. There is a cemetary dedicated to giving babies that have been disgarded and killed a decent buirral. It's not even a solution but the more and more it fills up with unwanted discarded children just maybe some day soon hopefully society will get it through there heads THIS AIN'T 1965 ANYMORE and to try and keep teens in the same mind set as they were when our parents were teens is not helping them.
I've done an exceptional job raising mine. I know that and many other people know that too and have shared there opnion with me telling me often how empressed they are that he doesn't crumble under peer presure and has a very respectful attitude with all adults he is in contact with.
I like how as soon as the opertunity was available I was emediately jumped on and accused of not knowing anything about parenting either that or the suggestion was that I am too lazy to be a parent. What ever the case, it doesn't really matter. What does matter though is having a sound realistic relationship with my kids how ever old they are that isn't based on fear, but trust. And that does exist. I wouldn't trade that for someone elses opinion.
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TR TR TR, oh my oh my.My kids are busy being PARENTED,being PARENTED,being PARENTED,being PARENTED,
busy with school activities, busy with after school activities. My wife and I spend a great deal of time with our kids. They don't have time to get involved with the teen dating bullshit.
********************************************************************You should see all the awards my unparented son has that completely cover an entire WALL. Medals. Trophys.
Not to mention the Volunteere work he quite often does.But thanks for you positive opinion anyway.
I'm a single mom raising , Well who has raised two sons in a crappy place over run with gang bangers ang disrespectful straight a+ students alike. I have no problem patting myself on the back. That doesn't mean I am not allowed to question and examine my choices and weigh the good with the bad and hope I make the right choice's. So far So good.
plmkrzyI did not proof read this so sorry if it's messed a bit.
"I look to the sea, reflections in the waves spark my memory
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BESTIS FRIENDS IN THE WHOLE WORLD
by plmkrzy inwho was your very best childhood friend?
the one you shared secrets with.. describe your fondest memoire of your very best childhood friend.
even if it was your teddy bear!
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plmkrzy
Big thank you Simon the edit works again!
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BESTIS FRIENDS IN THE WHOLE WORLD
by plmkrzy inwho was your very best childhood friend?
the one you shared secrets with.. describe your fondest memoire of your very best childhood friend.
even if it was your teddy bear!
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plmkrzy
Ok I guess I'll have to just use the o'l reply button tacktic meself
to keep this going. With a board like this made up of so many people with so much spirit,(with and without wings )I refuse to believe that only 4 of us have had a best friend.
Besides my best friend previously mentioned, I also had a stuffed little red pony I thought I'd never part with. That counts."I look to the sea, reflections in the waves spark my memory
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BESTIS FRIENDS IN THE WHOLE WORLD
by plmkrzy inwho was your very best childhood friend?
the one you shared secrets with.. describe your fondest memoire of your very best childhood friend.
even if it was your teddy bear!
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plmkrzy
Bubbles
Buy the way, Hi and welcome to the board. I hope you have some good expierences here.
plmkrzy
"I look to the sea, reflections in the waves spark my memory
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BESTIS FRIENDS IN THE WHOLE WORLD
by plmkrzy inwho was your very best childhood friend?
the one you shared secrets with.. describe your fondest memoire of your very best childhood friend.
even if it was your teddy bear!
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orangefatcat
[Those were the days!!]Ain't that the truth!
The same for me. My best friend and I were 5 years old and stayed best friends until our teens. The last time I saw her was at the last 8 day assembly I attended.
We had not seen each other for 2 years and we knew both of us would be at the assembly. But how do you expect to find someone in a crowd of 60,000+ people. The first day I was sitting near the bleachers with my parents.
We didn't have our umbrellas up yet, still to early., during the intermission I heard this real faint sound almost like my name but not sure, probably just some kid yelling something out loud.
You know how you just sit around during intermission bored, wanting to get up and go do something, get a bite to eat or go to the bath room but dread squeezing in and out of all those people in the isles all squished together trying to walk and only moving a half a step at a time so you just sit there instead and look around at all the people and fan yourself with your program?While I was sitting there just watching people watch people and fan myself with my program
out of the corner of my eye I caught this tiny white scarf or napkin waving wild across the field to the seats on the other side of the ball park. Then I heard my name being called. I grabbed my moms binoculars, Every other person at an assembly always had banaculars,
scanned the seats across the field and spotted my best friend looking back thru her moms binoculars cracking up. Then I started cracking up.
We wrote notes to each other and read them thru the binoculars, got together and spent the entire assembly together having a blast finding something funny in every thing we did.
No matter what we ran into, trouble or otherwise, we could turn it into a great time.
That was the last time we ever saw each other. She left the org before I did. Then I ran away from home. I haven't seen her in 25+ years but I still think of her as my very best friend.
plmkrzy"I look to the sea, reflections in the waves spark my memory
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Would you let your kids bf/gf sleep-over?
by Abaddon inat what age would you be happy with your kid's boyfriend and girlfriend 'sleeping over'?.
would the rules be different for boys vs. girls?.
personally, i think given a choice between 'it' happening anyway god-knows-where and giving a suitably mature kid some privacy, i go for the privacy option.. what do you think?
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plmkrzy
Hi Tim
Yehbuddy! you bet. I probably came off sounding like a wishie washie
but the one thing I have always stressed and in a major way was the dangers of being promiscuous and the consiquences that come with it. Life and death these days. I'm concerned about him starting to early and developing an attitude like, Damn there is no way to put it without sounding like a U know what. But the average young man was more so than not to concerned with stacking up numbers rather then manogamy. I have raised him on my own. No dad in his life so certain things are hard. -
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BESTIS FRIENDS IN THE WHOLE WORLD
by plmkrzy inwho was your very best childhood friend?
the one you shared secrets with.. describe your fondest memoire of your very best childhood friend.
even if it was your teddy bear!
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Who was your very best childhood friend? The one you shared secrets with.
Describe your fondest memoire of your very best childhood friend.
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Would you let your kids bf/gf sleep-over?
by Abaddon inat what age would you be happy with your kid's boyfriend and girlfriend 'sleeping over'?.
would the rules be different for boys vs. girls?.
personally, i think given a choice between 'it' happening anyway god-knows-where and giving a suitably mature kid some privacy, i go for the privacy option.. what do you think?
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plmkrzy
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