If you "go long times having nothing to do with em" you will be considered inactive and will be soft-shunned.
That used to be the case but Not anymore.
There are some brought up in the congregation I think they were unbaptised publishers as youngsters, never got baptised then just carried on JWlite
they come a few times a month or sometimes not for months
we have lots like this, I hear it’s becoming the norm these days in many congregations