The whole “Spirituality” as currency mindset is terrible. I’ve seen HOT JW women with lesser men just because they were Elders
I guess humans are just prone to seeking some kind of status. In the Non-jw land it could be Rich-Tall-Handsome. In JW land it's being an elder and giving talks at conventions.
It's those who have figured it out that finding someone who loves you for YOU---- and not some imaginary Brad Pitt or Freddy Franz that have a change of a life long marriage.
That being said, neither SPIRITUALLY STRONG or RICH, TALL and HANDSOME guarantees a happy married life.
Perhaps being single, dating beautiful men and women, and going home to your own bed WITHOUT THE DRAMA, is the best option these days.