Apply your self to somethng that matters. Good to hear your wife is for you and understands.
It is such a joy to watch couples plan goals together such as college in the next year.
Those are the couple who succeed in life.
Not the dump idiot elders patting each other on the backs, good job with the talk! Going out in service blah blah blah.
Most of them really do not want others to succeed because they set their lives up for failure. Basically they are not blind but stuck in a rut! This is it for them. Scare to change.