Sorry, working from my Tablet and something went awry!
She said "Yes these things have happened to me and others, but you can't get around the fact that the scriptures say that we have to go to the elders. Its obvious that he wants this arrangement." To which we replied "When you read those scriptures and it uses the word 'elder' does it have a capital e at the start or a small e?" She says "It has a small e" and I said "So what does that tell you?" She replies "That we should talk to older and wiser ones in the congregation." Then I said "Thats why another scripture says that the prayer of the faithful one is powerful. You see, scripture interprets scripture."
She sat there with this "OMG I never thought of it that way" look on her face, and then began to slowly nod as it dawned on her.
Now, I don't know how much logic there is to what I said, but I think we are slowly driving the point through the cult fogged mind. We mentioned the 'scripture interprets scripture' thing a few more times and will keep emphasising this. We suggested that for a while she just read and enjoy the bible alone. To this she replied "Yeah things change so suddenly in the truth that what you read one week might be apostate the next!"
So you can see that she sees it, but doesn't yet SEE it. If you know what I mean.
Patience....