OK, Expatbrit -- I appreciate your contribution but sense a contradiction here. The freedom to cry or not to cry is up to the individual -- but Jesus' weeping should be seen in reference to his clothing? What should he have been wearing? Capri pants?
At the same time, I do not judge a man who does cry over extreme circumstances. His
ideas of self esteem do not have to be the same as mine, and if they differ they are not
inferior.... Men should not all have to conform to a current politically correct idea about weeping.And anyone who says something like "well Jesus wept"....Jesus wore a friggin' robe all
day too!
The best,
nr