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Posts by lost1
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16SPARLOCK coffee cups, steins, shots and drinking glasses available!
by sacolton inhttp://www.cafepress.com/xjwtees.
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Sparlock has a Facebook Fan page!!!
by discreetslave infor those of you on facebook there is a fan page for the wizard https://www.facebook.com/sparlockthewizard.
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lost1
Liked on facebook
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Signed
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any south londoners out there?
by londonlady inor should i say 'sowf ladanars'?
;) pm me if you like.
looking2 find fellow apostates in my general area.
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Hello from sunny Berkshire!
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Hear ye!hear ye!!!!Take notice
by mouthy intomorrow the 22nd i will be 85 years old .
good wishes only please,remember if you say something nasty i will cry.
and my mum told me it is a sin to cry on your birthday .
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Happy Birthday x
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lost1
Thanks for all your help. Maybe deep down I know where this is going to end but its accepting it and dealing with the hurt inside first. If he had been honest at the beginning maybe it would have been different, who knows. Have told him here if wants to talk but thats all I can do for now.
Yes, Black Sheep, a dog would be so much less trouble!!
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jgnat - thanks for your really helpful advice. I have and am still doing the bucket of tears. It was not him posting on here, it was someone else who mentioned him by name - something to do with breaking up his marriage (DF?) that really set the alarm bells going. Seems he is pretty high up on the hierachy where he is. I need to be strong and walk away but know its going to be hard even, as you say, he comes wandering back in a weak moment. He can be a strong person and truly believe deep down he wants away but the guilt is eating him up.
Nugget - also thanks. I think you hit the nail on the head. He is going through a traumatic time so I reckon he has been drawn back in.
All this is very new to me but you have def given me food for thought.
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Yes I did loose my post
Firstly am not JW but met a guy about a year ago. Must just say not going to say any areas/names as have just found his name mentioned on a post on this forum and they were not happy with him! Anyway things were great for a few months, got on brilliantly, always rang when said etc etc. Life was good. Then my birthday and got some flowers sent (he was abroad at the time) but no "happy birthday" same for xmas, nothing at all. Would not even visit. This and other things started to ring few alarm bells and against my better judgement did a google search and suddenly everything made sense. Why I never visited him (we did live a fair few miles apart) and had to cancel dates etc at short notice. I asked him whether he was a JW and he confirmed he was a born in but was struggling with things in his life and did not want to talk about it. Left it for a couple of months but he became very distant. I did not raise the subject again but now he has totally withdrawn into himself. Told me he wanted a new life away and thought he was genuine. Can the guilt get to someone that much? Not heard anything from him now for over two weeks. Any advice would really help as no idea how to deal with this. Thanks.
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lost1
Thanks everyone. Will repost
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