Sir82 - Yep got it in one! He was the perfect bf for the first few months, treated me better than anyone else I have known, but as said in my original post got suspicious and did some searching on the internet and found answers. Stupidly I kept it to myself for while longer then started to ask questions. Eventually he did admit but was very blaise about it saying had not been to conventions etc for ages but then found out this was a lie and now I think he has got himself in such a state and all got too much hence the meltdown. Maybe he thought I was going to drop him in. There is other stuff he said but finding it hard to separate truth from lies now.
May not be a jw but have friends/family involved and have seen the devastation it can cause but reading this board has helped me masses to understand bf state of mind. I have told him (in a rash moment) I could drop him in big time and he did agree. At the time I did not mean it but now after finding out more last day or so and way been treated recently I am sorely tempted. Think the word I am looking for is dumped and hoping I keep my mouth shut!
Just as matter of interest Sir82 what do you think in your honest opinion would happen to him??
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