Farkle,
I felt like you were retelling my childhood memories also and
my husband has shared similar stories from his childhood.
All I can say about Josephs post to you is that it was rude and condescending!
Obviously all who claimed to be witnesses didn’t live the hard-core JW life that the organization demanded of it’s members.
I found that my families claims to putting “the kingdom first” was a convienient excuse and justification for them to be cheap scapes as well as shitty neglectful parents.
They continue to use same excuse to continue to ignore my sister and I as well as their grandchildren.
I believe you will find many more ex JWs who will identify with your memories than those of Joseph.
I am happy that his life and memories weren’t as oppressive as ours or that he dealt with it like a robot instead of a person with feelings, but I do not approve of his attitude towards you. I’m sure he could care less but I wanted to say it anyway.
This will be our first Christmas.
It’s time to celebrate life instead of enduring suffocating bondage!
Never again will I allow an organization to suck all spirit and happiness from my life!
Ranchette
