You realize that everyone who is telling you not to do what you want and not to play by the orgs rules are literally still Jehovahs Witnesses and always will be. That is fine if that is what you want.
I Da'ed. My wife followed and my children. I sent messages via mail and facebook and more than a few were impacted and left and are now on this site.
We don't have to sell our homes or hide daily activities to be our genuine selves.
Neither do I have to look over my shoulder.
Do what you want, what is best for you, but avoid the fearmongering