No doubt you are already showing kindness and more mercy than usual in your position as cobe. People are probably noticing you are different than others. As you fade, people will remember these things, and knowing what a genuine person you are, it will help some others to reexamine their own thoughts on what a Christian should be. Noticing that the ones who stayed are less Christlike than the one who left. You have no idea how many people you will affect.
Boy, a lot of people here are from Australia! I'm sure some are using that as a front because it's so far away from the rest of the world...but I'll take your word for it :).
I am so happy you and your wife have found jesus in this. I did during my fade too, and I am so thankful. You may feel attacked sometimes on here for your faith, but know that many others share your faith on here. This place is like the Underground Railroad during American slavery. Helping people to be free, giving them guidance along the way, one step at a time.