I know a lot of very good people who are witnesses, and I'm sure your witnesses are like these people. please do not consider what we have said to be against these specific people. It is the organization policies as a whole we are mostly talking about, and every witness will follow those policies because they are not allowed not to follow them.
Im glad you know what to do now, and I'm glad these people were there for you when you needed it and you being who you are im sure you will be nice to them when you tell them what you need to tell them, and hopefully all the karma will be good :). Take care kulotti, and have a very good life being true to yourself.