FayeDunaway

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  I'm getting disfellowshipped

  by raven in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  hi everyone, a bit of an update here on my continuing disaster of a situation.. (refer to my previous posts for the full story) my mom met with me yesterday for dinner, it was nice.. however, she brought up the fact that because i live with my boyfriend and how everything has gone down, i will be disfellowshipped.. i think the elders basically have enough proof of this.. due to the anonymous tipper (still have no clue who it was, i live in another town 100's of miles away from my old congregation territory), and my mom telling them.

  i'm not sure when they will announce it, or if they will contact me prior.. at this point i feel so emotionally dead i don't care- on the other hand, i don't want to be disfellowshipped because i do not want to loose a relationship with my mom.

  that is the whole reason i tried fading out.. .

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  FayeDunaway

  It's all so sad and sick.

  She might still talk to you on the sly, depending on if she's hardcore or not. She might be more nervous about you coming over and your car being seen at her house etc than talking on the phone. Talk about these things to her before it happens. Some families even end up leaving if their children are cut off, because they see the cruelty.

  I remember a disfellowshipped member here, pbrow, actually forces his presence on his mom, shows up and does her gardening etc., and they have a relationship because of it. 
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  "They trampled on my humility."

  by Zoos in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  it's rare that i bump into someone from the old hall.

  but it happened yesterday with one of the nicest brothers i remember.. he came into my place of work not knowing i worked there.

  my company is now on his delivery route.

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  FayeDunaway

  Wow, fantastic story!

  Your headline tho..that's heartbreaking. So sad that he turned to them, showed them all his vulnerability and they ripped him apart. I wonder how his mother feels.
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  Voting In Elections

  by BluesBrother in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  this subject came to mind with upcoming u k referendum on continued membership of the e. u. departure is commonly known as brexit.

  the rights or wrongs of that issue are not the point of this thread but rather the wts insistence that dubs take no part in such things .. their comments are shown here : " keep yourself in god's love " book from 2014, page 213/4 (quoted in full for clarity).

  voting in political elections.

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  FayeDunaway

  Good points. Make them aware of it!!
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  "Cult Following" - New album by former JW

  by Dagney in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i was listening to "fresh air" today and this review came up for a new album by a former jw, laurel sprengelmeyer/little scream.. http://www.npr.org/2016/05/23/479154048/little-scream-casts-a-dreamy-spell-with-cult-following.

  laurel sprengelmeyer has opened up the possibility that she intends the album titled "cult following" to have more than one meaning, not just a small devoted fan base, but perhaps a reference to having been raised for part of her youth as a jehovah's witness, which she has referred to in an interview as a kind of christian religious cult.. yup.

  it kind of is..

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  FayeDunaway

  Marked...sad I missed fresh air today!
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  What not to do when trying to fade...

  by Nihilistic Journey in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  1. do not get drunk before a pearl jam concert.. 2. don't register to vote while drunk.. .

  3. do not get your picture taken while registering to vote while drunk before a pearl jam concert.

  4. do not give drunken permission for the newspaper to run the picture on the front page!.

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  FayeDunaway

  Omg, not only your picture but your full name as well!! Thanks for sharing that. It's sort of catastrophic and hilarious at the same time...and definitely what NOT to do when trying to fade.

  My best friend was still a (disobedient, guilt ridden) believer for 10 years before finally doing research as well. Congrats on mental freedom, finally.
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  I'm getting baptized

  by BlackWolf in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i know i've started similar topics before but this time i'm serious.

  my parents have been constantly pressuring me and after yesterday's watchtower study they asked me if i was going to be baptized this summer... and i said yes.

  i probably should have thought about it more before making a final decision, but they're pretty much forcing me to do it anyway.

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  FayeDunaway

  I don't think they'll shun you if you never get baptized. They will be disappointed and the relationship will be stifled, but I don't think they will shun you. Only time will tell but that's my hunch.
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  Finding my mental condition getting worse not sure what to do?

  by Crazyguy in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i'm pretty sure i have ptsd because of this cult.

  i now experience headaches pretty much daily and find myself poping excedrin migraine pills 3-4 a day.

  also i'm drinking alcohol a bit to take the edge off.

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  FayeDunaway

  When you talk to a doctor don't be afraid to mention the stress you are under because of this religion that you are stuck in and think may be a trigger for your headaches and ask if they can refer you to a counselor. They won't be able to help you fully unless you are completely honest.
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  Jokes for MARY

  by rebel8 in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  *disclaimer: these are just jokes!

  mary is having a really crappy time playing the cards life has dealt her right now and that is no joke.

  but since we know how fond she is of jokes, maybe we can cheer her up.*.

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  FayeDunaway

  Always take TWO Jehovah's witnesses fishing.

  Cuz if you take one, he'll drink all your beer. If you take two, they won't drink any.
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  What were you never going to do in "This system" But did it?

  by karter in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  finish school.. finish my apprenticeship (why are you doing that brother karter you will never finish it in this system).. buy a house.. pay the house off.. karter..

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  FayeDunaway

  Excellent post, LoisLane.
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  Seen on facebook

  by Lostandfound in

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  FayeDunaway

  Thanks skin! But I don't know how to quote people, or add a pic, or anything. At least the highlighting is gone...not that I figured it out, it's just not there this time. :)

  Plus I'm like REALLY lame about coming up with new topics. I think I'm up to 4 now.

  Oh! I just got the 1914 joke :). ...maybe at my 1975th post something magical will happen?? Or will it just fizzle out like the year did....