So in this new jw lite era we are now in, would it be possible to go from a baptised believer to a an inactive publisher who is not know as a witness? An official soft fade?
It used to be that once baptised you either left by disassociation or disfellowshiping. Or hard fade where you manage to avoid elders for a couple of years until you are no longer known in the community as a JW then you succeeded to hard fade. No shunning with hard fade you just left and even if you live with someone unmarried or something similar witnesses can still talk to you.
So with all the new light and changes recently, could someone try a soft fade where they stop in person meetings and only attend on zoom seldomly. Become inactive and always ignore elders attempting to get in contact.
After enough time the end goal would be people are not sure if they are still a witness or not. You would have to be very very careful not answer any sneaky questions trying to dig for info.
The success at the end should be the option to have associations with witnesses families and friends. Be a part of it all without giving away your true feelings.
I actually know of some who have done this for years now. They did get baptised when they were young but soft faded later, they had family who were PIMI so still kept friends with many in the congregation. Now they are no longer known as witnessed so they won’t ever have judicial proceedings but can still pretend to show interest in coming back which makes everyone love bomb you and you get invited to all the social gatherings