Posts by rekless

he's never even been to court, so people in the area shun me and my children, she's judgemental she gossips, she's bullied me and my children for years, she's very demanding and is aways after some thing, i fell out with her because i was very depressed and could not cope with her, she's called me terrible things in the street her family have terrorised me and my family in our home, my children have been victimised and accused of horrible things, when i was really depressed she told me i had done nothing for her thats why she is being horrible to me, not one week went by in twenty years when she did'nt ask for some thing, i said no once to her she wanted 80.00 just after the birth of my daughter, she started a row and did not speak to me for 5 years, i'm really hurt as this woman was really hard to cope with she often upset me and i always made excuses for her, turned the other cheek and she turned on me and my children over some thing that should have been sorted out with kindness, i'm so sad i don't know how to stop hurting..

rekless

Get a restraining order against her. If you live in the USA

Get a stay away order against her. If you live in the USA

I guess every country has the same equivalency to the above legal documents.

If you can afford it get a lawyer and sue her for defimation of character.

Probally best of; all if you see her coming, cross the street. Ignore her and shunn her.

You don't have to put up with her B S, just walk away. If she follows you approach a police officer and tell him, That woman there is bothering me I have ask her to leave me alone and she won't.

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Anyone have a 2004 Santa Fe???

by still_in74 in

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hey all, i am hoping any other santa fe owners can help me here.. i have a 2004 santa fe.

it is stalling while driving and almost immediately restarts.

i have a 4 cyl.

rekless

It maybe a catylitic convertor plugged. It will cause ppoor performance, stalling and

lost of power.

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With a heavy heart I regret to inform you that..

by Wordly Andre in

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i regret to inform, all of you that i will no longer be a member of this board, ive thought about it a long time and to hard decision that after many hours of praying i will be returning to the society.

i know its the only way i can confront the problem that i am currently faced with, i am sure all of you at one time thought about it too, i am however weak, i know that going back will only delay matters and keep this horrible secret of mine, but its the only way i know how i can deal with it.

thank you for all your support and for me to fully get back to jehovahs organization i can not be a member of this board thank you worldly andre

rekless

ooops, sorry that was typical Witness first response.

Happy Birthday to you.

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With a heavy heart I regret to inform you that..

by Wordly Andre in

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friends

i regret to inform, all of you that i will no longer be a member of this board, ive thought about it a long time and to hard decision that after many hours of praying i will be returning to the society.

i know its the only way i can confront the problem that i am currently faced with, i am sure all of you at one time thought about it too, i am however weak, i know that going back will only delay matters and keep this horrible secret of mine, but its the only way i know how i can deal with it.

thank you for all your support and for me to fully get back to jehovahs organization i can not be a member of this board thank you worldly andre

rekless

shunn him, shunn him, how dare you treat us like doo doo.

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Reuniting with ex-jws from your home town

by Mysterious in

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has anyone had the experience from talking to ex-jws from their home town?

it really is an eerie experience to talk to someone who knows the exact place, circumstance and lifestyle that you do.

even more so than the connectedness of places like jwd.

rekless

I ran into some exs on this board from McComb,Ms. It was great to catch up on some news after 30 years.

Dan

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Charity change inUK "If the cong is disbanded"

by hamsterbait in

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i just heard that the charity law has changed in uk.. interesting that the charter for each congo (now independent charities operating under the direction of the wtbts of britain) says:.

"if the congregation is disbanded, all properties and money shall be distributed among its members pro rata.".

i suppose the witchtower will find a way round this one, so nobody gets a penny except the mother borg.. hb.

rekless

I'm sure there will be a suggestion, in view we disband, let's send the money for the world wide work.

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Are Your Morals The Same As When You Were A Witness?

by minimus in

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i guess that i can say, from a biblical viewpoint, anyone that practices "fornication", having sex without being married, would be "immoral".

other than, i don't lie or cheat or steal or even kill anyone else!

do you view yourself a "moral" or "immoral" person and why?

rekless

"I would not know sin if not for law" Rom.7:7

Jesus said "You did not know sin until i showed you sin.

Soooo, before the law there was no sin, but God invented the law to make us sinners.

so the question is: Why? Not have your morals changed?

dan

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My Brother Died in a Car Wreck Last Night

by WLG in

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i just found out about an hour ago.

he wasn't even old enough to drink yet.. to make it even sh*ttier, he had called me a few weeks ago and asked if he could come out here with me but i couldn't do it at the time.

so of course the first thing that comes to mind is if i had done something different it wouldn't have happened.. he was going through the sh*t as i call it, when witnesses go off the deep end and get into everything in the world to stop hurting and they don't even know what is wrong.

rekless

I'm so sorry.

Don't blame yourself.You didn't do anything wrong...just bad timing.

Yes, I do know what you are going through--I lost a son and wife in death due to the blood issue. It is hard to reason with when you look back.

Did you hear about the woman who never cross the I35W because she could not nor swim,but

she picked the day the bridge fell to cross it--she died!

Who can guess the what and when ? So many senerios to play out.

So just grieve and try not to put the blame on yourself.

Dan

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Has Anyone Ever Refused To Turn In Their Elder Manual ???? What Happened??

by Lady Liberty in

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hello friends,.

inlight of the new post from elsewhere regarding the elders manual, it got me wondering what the elder body would do if a elder refused to turn in their manual.

i suppose there isn't alot they could do, but has it ever happened to any of you??

rekless

I never turned my in and nobody asked.

The book is a bunch of bunk anyway.