One of my siblings was diagnosed with secondary cancer early last year has undergone 4 treatment's and they have not been successful yet.A non JW relative let their only child who was disfellowshiped for teenage stuff about 10 years ago they called their parents and they explained the diagnosis to them and then they just wanted just to chat to them and was told we can't do that because you are disfellowshiped and they said they have to return to Jehovah.
That was the end of the conversation .
I spoke to my family members about this and they just said they need to return to Jehovah ,I asked them but if they no longer believe in Jehovah do you expect them to tell lies to return "deer in the headlights moment " and just repeated they need to return.
Very sad because of a abusive controlling cult that destroys family's.