Posts by Fadeaway1962

But the elders book says No you can't just leave resign ,your either disfellowshiped or dissociation which basically means the same you will be punished for resigning .

But to the public or a study it's looks like you can leave at any time but as we all know that the org talks out off both sides of its mouth,and has one side for the public and another for cult members.

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Handwritten letter's from JW children "sick"

by Fadeaway1962 in

https://www.edinburghnews.scotsman.com/news/people/edinburgh-residents-targeted-with-handwritten-letters-from-child-members-of-jehovahs-witnesses-brand-the-move-sick-3153697?amp .

how the residents feel about receiving a letter from a jw children..

Fadeaway1962

https://www.edinburghnews.scotsman.com/news/people/edinburgh-residents-targeted-with-handwritten-letters-from-child-members-of-jehovahs-witnesses-brand-the-move-sick-3153697?amp

How the residents feel about receiving a letter from a JW children.

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Australia: Jehovah’s Witnesses to join redress scheme for child sexual abuse survivors

by yalbmert99 in

australia: jehovah’s witnesses to join redress scheme for child sexual abuse survivors.

https://thenewdaily.com.au/news/2021/03/03/jehovahs-witnesses-redress-scheme/.

Fadeaway1962

Thanks

It will be interesting to see how they word the apology to the victims and survivors.

Does that mean that ARC is no longer a apostate lie ?

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When was your last Kingdom Hall meeting?

by RULES & REGULATIONS in

i stopped going to kingdom hall meetings about nine years ago.

i was fading for the longest time, refused to go out in field service, dropped out of the ministry school talks, no longer answered at the watchtower study, arrived at the meetings the last second, and left as soon as possible.

i couldn't take attending the meetings any longer.

Fadeaway1962

Because of leaving a abusive marriage as the victim I was asked to go to the sister congregation sharing the same hall about two years ago and started fading straight away , because I walked away from the marriage I was veiwed as a bad association ,at the start someone did ask i just made a excuse and over time extended the length of time between meetings and nobody really bothered which made it easier to fadeaway.

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When was your last Kingdom Hall meeting?

by RULES & REGULATIONS in

i stopped going to kingdom hall meetings about nine years ago.

i was fading for the longest time, refused to go out in field service, dropped out of the ministry school talks, no longer answered at the watchtower study, arrived at the meetings the last second, and left as soon as possible.

i couldn't take attending the meetings any longer.

Fadeaway1962

2-3 weeks before the lockdown ,I was attending a meeting about every 6 weeks or so but I would arrive late and leave early ,I just couldn't listen to the crap anymore ,so never got any logins for zoom and I never told the elders my address or mobile number and those that had my number I blocked them I'm surprised I don't really miss anyone at the hall , still have contact with family members as they live some distance away but they must have an idea because they know ones in my former congregation's .

Never going back to the cult

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Is there a renewed iemphasis on the "go bag" in the past mont or so?

by nonjwspouse in

my soon to be ex moved out over a year ago.

he left most of his things here ( i guess he thinks of my house as his personal storage unit).

one thing he left was his survival backpack, i assume his "go bag".

Fadeaway1962

The go bag a gone bag now 😁

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Since Myself and our sons left the JW cult, My wife has been M.I.A has a mom and wife

by goingthruthemotions in

i would like to get some feed back from pomo's who's spouse is still pimi.

since myself and our son's left the jw cult.

my wife has been m.i.a has a mom and a wife.

Fadeaway1962

Sorry for your situation at present , from your previous post this behaviour has been going on for years.

This is clearly unreasonable behaviour on the part of your wife towards yourself and your boys,yes hiding away from yourself in the bedroom could be a symptom of depression but it could also be silent treatment in order to punish yourself and your boys and is a form of domestic abuse (I'm a survivor of domestic abuse at the hand of my JW wife and she would do that to punish and control me ) please consider speaking to a marriage counselor or a domestic abuse agency for their advice and support .

For you and your boys and your mental and physical health please seek help and advice from trained professionals for the best help and advice.

Take care and my thoughts are with yourself and your boys.