Well
This isn’t particularly a JW question but if anyone knows
the world of shunning it would be ex-JWs.
I have a friend who about three years ago had an abortion
and I haven’t been too friendly with since that happened. I haven’t said
anything or done anything rude to her. We live in different cities and when I travel
back home I don’t contact her. We do
have some contact with email and facebook and such but not like before.
A little bit of background , me and my wife have had fertility
problems for years. Fortunately for us she is finally pregnant but it was
really hard for me watching her world fall apart every 28 days.
My friend got herself pregnant out of wedlock on purpose in
her early 20s to a man with quite a lucrative profession and 12-13 years later
when he really hits it big ( about 250,000 a year for 6 months work ) she find
herself pregnant. Of course with the
money and vacations there is no room for another child so off to the clinic.
Of course being none of my business I have never said
anything to anyone and watching the way the wives so friends act, I never want to
be that morally bankrupt but am I really being any better.