I grew up in a normal evangelical church. About half the people who attended each Sunday were baptized members and about half were people who just attended. I know I never really paid that much attention to what was going but I never ever heard stories of infinity , there was hardly any divorced people and absolutely no kiddie diders.
Of course there are former members who fell away but it’s not like anyone ever gets removed. Chances are if you are going to pursue a career in porn or develop a coke habit, you will be long gone before any elder talks to you.
All I ever hear about with the JW is the high standard of cleanliness they hold their members too and at the same time all these terrible things happening.
How come the self-proclaimed morally cleanest people on earth seem to have all this terrible things on?
P.S- You should have nailed her. She gets disfellowed. Finds freedom from the cult. It would have been very Christian of you.