My ex-husband (a born-in) and I were watching a program that detailed the psychological profile of a serial rapist. At the end of the program I looked over at him and said, "That's you!" He answered, "Yeah, you're right."
He suffered from what used to be called multiple personality disorder, and he sexually assaulted me a number of times. He used to come home from work early on occasion and tell me, "I had to leave. I was going to kill him." I've often wondered if he has bodies buried somewhere. He's still a JW, but I think someday he'll snap. Or maybe he's snapped already. I'm writing a book about it.