The simple truth is, in every sexual partnership, one will have a higher sex drive. It is an absolute fact, as no ones hormones are identical to anothers and hormones drive most human behaviors. Including sex drive.
stop making this some ridiculous male/female thing, or patriarchy, or repressed women or impudent men or whatever reductive cliché of the week tickles you personally.
the core issue is that the wtbs has zero business in the bedroom making rules of any sort, legally or biblically.