Agreed. Try this simple test. Give your significant other a gift, and tell them that you love them.
Then make sure to explain that they don’t deserve it, and that you gave it to them because you are so wise and benevolent and you just love the effort they put forth.
Maybe someday, if they work hard enough, they will gain the privilege of the prospect of gaining your love in the truest sense.
Thats what JWs earn, not immortality, but the prospect of eternal life if they do enough for long enough and never make a mistake for all eternity.
DD