Mulan said:
I am trying hard to become the least judgmental person I know..................since I used to be the most judgmental person I knew.
that is a great attitude! ((((((((Mulan)))))))
I guess I'll add my .02. I sometimes smoke when I'm having a few drinks with friends. I have never had the craving unless I've been drinking.
I married a smoker. He doesn't smoke in the house- only outside, so my house has never smelled like smoke. I don't know how he does it, but he (meaning his clothes, hair, etc.) never smells like smoke so that's good. You definitely can't tell that we have a smoker living in our house. We would have problems if my house reeked.
Anywho, to each his own. It doesn't bother me.