Danny, we all, including you and I, have contributed to the melee, and the general black clouds in a few threads. I can understand it getting you down.
I don't think anyone should be sweetness and light all the time, just to keep the peace. It's not my nature. But neither do I enjoy being a bitch 24 hours a day, lol. So, you're tired of the fighting, and I'm tired of it, for now. But some others might not be done having their say yet, and that is their right, too.
My suggestion is, those of you/us who are tired of being in the ring, stay out of the fighting threads, at least until your humor gets back up to normal levels, and you can handle it again without it bringing you down. Here, have a beer... It's all in the balance,k?
Hugs,
RCat