Posts by Roamingfeline

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'Deaden your body members'

by Maxee in

i recently read a post on the net regarding how often men think about sex.

i started to think about how often i did.

i followed this up with a survey on antoher site and found i ranked low and they told me i had sexual problems.

I had to "deaden my body members" for over 6 years.. not that I was always successful (the big M", you know!) But I do know what you're talking about, Maxee. My cousin, who's never been a JW and has been divorced since 1987, has never dated, and has absolutely NO interest in sex, or very little, although she enjoys the companionship and cuddling of having a relationship. It's a big reason why she's divorced!

It may be that you just have a lower sexual drive than some people. It does NOT mean that you're abnormal, however. We're not all alike in our needs, and there is no need to be!

Hugs,
RCat

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Would like opinions

by Kismet in

jw
friends

as i have posted previously i am inactive but have disappeared from the ranks quietly.

my jw family know nothing of my departure from the org except that i am not as "zealous" as i once was for the org.. here's the dilemna, my sister's mother in law (a jw) is dying of cancer.

(the docs say she could go today, this week, in two weeks..they just don't know) she is a phenomenal caring person and has always been a kind gentle soul with all she has met.

Roamingfeline

You can tell a real computer geek by their ICQ#. LOL Icq is really very easy to use. It's been around for quite awhile. Not too hard to use, just follow the directions, SS!

Cheers,
RCat

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I guess no one has kids then...

by Simon in

this forum is very quiet.. i guess all us with kids are kept too busy to post!.

we have two boys - liam (3) and dylan (1).

how about everyone else ?

Roamingfeline

I second that! My four year old is hyperactive, just when I can tolerate that the least! She has quite a motor mouth, and is very creative, so I have to be very vigilant!

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Do Children and Aeroplanes mix ??

by Simon in

we are going to visit canada later this year with our two boys, aged 1 and 3, and wondered if anyone had any experience or tips for taking small kids on planes and keeping them amused for 8 hours.. heeeeellpp !!

!

Roamingfeline

Simon, the two times I have taken the trip to Australia, Katie-Rose was 3 & 4 years old, respectively. It was a 27 hour plane ride, with three changes of planes in between. She slept, played video games and listened to children's music on the screen (which were on the back of each seat in the plane going across the Pacific). Also, I took a few books, puzzles, etc. on the plane to amuse her. She was a great traveler, but we made many trips to the bathroom just out of sheer boredom on her part!

Hugs,
RCat

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I guess no one has kids then...

by Simon in

this forum is very quiet.. i guess all us with kids are kept too busy to post!.

we have two boys - liam (3) and dylan (1).

how about everyone else ?

Roamingfeline

Speaking of kids.... I have four. Jenni, age 23, Robyn, age 22 who's married to Chris and has my granddaughter Laura, age 2, and also about to give birth in October to Casey (boy). I also have Jaime, age 17, who just spent a month with me here in Australia. She left two days ago and I've been bawling my eyes out ever since. She's going back to finish her senior year in Missouri. And I also have Katie-Rose, age four, here in Perth with me. All girls, all very pretty.

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Would like opinions

by Kismet in

jw
friends

as i have posted previously i am inactive but have disappeared from the ranks quietly.

my jw family know nothing of my departure from the org except that i am not as "zealous" as i once was for the org.. here's the dilemna, my sister's mother in law (a jw) is dying of cancer.

(the docs say she could go today, this week, in two weeks..they just don't know) she is a phenomenal caring person and has always been a kind gentle soul with all she has met.

Roamingfeline

HI there, Kis. Visit is over as of this morning. I put her on a plane about 2 hours ago. :-( I'm in official mourning for my little one now. I'm sure going to miss her! It's kind of like the official end to her childhood with me. She will graduate high school this year and is planning on getting married shortly after that. So it was bittersweet, you know? sob sob

Big hugs to ya. As usual, we do think alike!

RCat

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Would like opinions

by Kismet in

jw
friends

as i have posted previously i am inactive but have disappeared from the ranks quietly.

my jw family know nothing of my departure from the org except that i am not as "zealous" as i once was for the org.. here's the dilemna, my sister's mother in law (a jw) is dying of cancer.

(the docs say she could go today, this week, in two weeks..they just don't know) she is a phenomenal caring person and has always been a kind gentle soul with all she has met.

Roamingfeline

Hi Kis,

Here's my .02. You don't have to play by the ORG's rules. That's THEIR problem. This lady believes in you as a person, not as a JW, you see? You are her friend. She wants you as a person to say that prayer for her. I would have NO bad conscience about doing so. If there is truly a loving God up there, I can bet he would listen to YOUR prayers alot quicker than he would listen to the hypocrites who would dare to condemn you! My sympathies in the loss of your dear friend, btw.

Big hugs,
RCat

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(With megaphone) Frenchy, where are you?!?!?

by Roamingfeline in

jw
friends

we're getting worried about ya.

big hugs, .

rcat

Roamingfeline

Hi Waiting,

I've been enjoying my daughter's visit. She's been here from the USA for the past month and goes back home early in the morning. :-( So I'll be back around more after I do the major housecleaning that I've left while she's here!

Frenchy,

Glad to hear you're ok! Hope to see you around here more soon!

Hugs,
RCat

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