Hi:
Do not be mistaken. The WTS is still telling its members to totally shun family members that are either not active, DA, of DF.
We are planning a family reunion during the first week in August, 2006 for our 72 year old mother, who really wants the reunion with all her living children (8) and grandchildren, cousins, etc. (Our father passed away 9 years ago).
However, because some of us are not active or DA, my three sisters -who are self-righteous JW's (there are 5 girls and 3 boys) are refusing to come to the family reunion-bacuase of those of us who are not active or DA. will be attending. So myself and my twin sister, and our three brothers are planning the events for the family reunion. Fortunately my aunt, uncle and other cousins are coming. They are not JW's.- although my aunt and uncle were raised in the JW organization.
My mother is still an active witness, but she does not care if some of us are in or out of the organization. She just wants to see all of us while she is alive and healthy and able to enjoy our company and have a good time together. She doesn't want to dwell on the negative about the other siblings that are refusing to come or to say how hurt she really is. But when I spoke with her yesterday, I assured her that we are going to have fun together and if the others do not want to come, it's their loss. They may regret their decision later on and they may not.
So, all-in-all, there will be about 25 of us (5 of us siblings and spouses, our children, grandchildren, aunt, uncle and cousins).And we plan to have a good time: in Charlotte, NC. ( My mom lives in Monroe, NC).
Shopping, bowling party (we are a family of bowlers), and our family reunion dinner.
This organization's ways and rules have hurt so many families- it is truly not from Jehovah God or Jesus Christ.
Ronin1