After reading all these posts, I will state this again as I did in an earlier post:
"WE should have heeded the counsel in the Bible from long ago........it's always been there :
Ps 56:11 -" In God I have put my trust. I shall not be afraid. What can earthling man do to me?".
Jer 7:4 - "Do not put your trust in fallacious words, saying, 'the temple of Jehovah, the temple of Jehovah, the temple of Jehovah they are".
Instead, many of us continued to listen to the diatribes and fallacies of the WTS ( not from God), their threats of disfellowshipment, destruction, etc. and allowed ourselves to be suckered into many untrue doctrines, rules, etc.
Thus we allowed ourselves to be dupped.and were dupped.
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And I definitely understand many of the sentiments expressed. If anyone has had a chance to read Mein Kampt by Adolf Hitler and the "Nurenberg Trials"- you will understand the mentality of 'just following orders' and why that can be no excuse for any elder who professes or professed to be a true Christian and then get involved in the negative and non-Christlike actions that have taken place at BOE meetings and witch hunts, etc. Their BOE's meeting decisions destroyed lives of many families-never to be repaired. That is why so many on this site have no sympathy for COs and DOs, etc. now suffering and being put out to pasture by the WTS. Those Elders, CO's and DOs had no business 'just following orders' of men in lieu of Christ Jesus example and Gods' word the Bible.
Forgiveness is not easy for some. Let's just hope their not being able to forgive does not hinder them from progressing toward whatever positive goals they have set for themselves since leaving the BORG.
Ronin1